Sunday, November 23, 2008

ISFJ and ENTJ

How much more different could we be?

I'm introverted. I live more for the present. I am a total feeler.

He's extraverted. He lives more for the future. He's a total thinker.

Most of our arguments arise from the T and F differences (he says something based on logic and I react to it on emotion), but our reasons for whatever we're arguing about hang more on our S and N differences (he's got the big picture and I'm getting stuck on the details).

Somehow we can stand each other.

Stephen's protective strength and quiet confidence drew me. My sweet and tender nature drew him. I guess we're each other's missing pieces.

We also have Love in common. We're both strong followers of Christ--albeit in our own different ways--and both have a heart for people. Stephen calls us "rescuers." Christ was a rescuer too. So the thing that we have in common with each other is the same thing we have in common with Christ.

How much more perfectly fit for each other can you get?